You’re nervous for your first time seeing him in this kind of setting. You want to mesmerize him and make him think of you even after the evening comes to an end. But you just don’t know how to put your best foot forward?! Let’s go over some ways the confident feminine woman would walk into a date with her natural charm and allure.
1. Classic and Sensual Outfit
You want to wear something that tells the story of your physique. It does not need to be too busy or too intricate. Let the outfit speak of your personality and an ode to your body in a graceful way.
Examples can include a dark top that has a stylish neck/collarbone cut. It can be a sweetheart cut or even a stylish laissez-faire turtleneck. Tucked into a pair of lighter fitted jeans. And topped with a leather jacket. I would throw a pair of heels on with some done-up nails or closed-toe stilettos to add some spice to the outfit.
Sweatheart neck with a semi bulky belt to cinch the waist in an ornate way. Flared jeans to add an aura of ease some strappy heels to give the legs a feminine pop.
A flowy wrap dress is perfect for spring and summer days where you just want to feel flowy delicate and comfortable in your feminine curves.
2. Full Lips, Natural Lashes and Rosey Cheeks
Embrace your natural feminine self by simply enhancing what you already have. No need to over spend or over do it with the makeup and the unnatural additions.
You are beautiful in your wholeness and let him see your true beauty. Less is more here. And that also shows more confidence.
Full lips with a color that compliments your skin and gives you a vibrant look. Add some lip oil or sheen to give it the supple look. Add it before applying the matte color. You don’t want wrinkly lips.
Moisturize and then apply some matte makeup to keep the shine away as the evening progresses.
Keep your natural lashes and either curl it at the ends and simply apply some mascara to it. Just a bit not too much that it covers the beauty of your eyes. Lash Blindness is real phenomena–remember when we all overdrew our eyebrows??
We are just adding to what’s already there. You can also add some eye shadow that looks earthy (think tones of browns and pinks).
Add a puff of pinkish blush by the front of the cheeks to give yourself a youthful glow! And you are ready to go. Spritz with makeup setting spray to have that look stay with you for most of the evening. And look fresh and flawless.
You can feel comfortable in what you have, add your little “puff” and let that confidence guide you!
3. Perfume
You are never fully dressed without perfume.
C Joybell
Perfumes provide a memory and a desire to the person who smells your scent. You will forever be attached to that scent for them. It will mix in with your pheromones providing a sensual pull towards you.
Choose wisely. What kind of scent describes you best? Intense and intoxicating? Or light, flowery and flirty?
The scent is an extension of the feminine archetype you embody. So take your time in picking the best perfume or body mist that embodies your charm.
4. Realist Attitude with an Open Mind
Be willing to show interest! Don’t make it a one way street. Actually come in there with questions to see what excites this man in life and what excites him about the prospect of getting to know you.
Have some introspection and be real about yourself. You can choose what you want to share on the onset since he is a stranger in this dating realm.
Understand that even if he seems good on paper and may be charming in person, you must not be too eager to throw yourself onto him. One evening will not show all his vices, his temperament and/or his ambitions.
Don’t over romanticize him. He is a human with flaws just as you are.
Speak to him as a human that you genuinely would like to know more. And eventually you will come to understand if that’s someone you can share your life with.
“Don’t you understand we’re all broken? The point is to find the person whose broken pieces fit yours.”
Vanessa from Daredevil
5. Confident Mindset
If you need to recite affirmations before the date, do so!
Tell yourself right then and there what are you going to do if you actually like him? Will you tell him? Wait for him to express it first.
As a confident woman in her divine feminine, don’t waste any energy on mysticism and waiting for texts all day long. You are meeting new individuals and you are trying to see what you like and what you don’t like in these men that are courting you. It’s okay to not be the exact fit for someone and vice versa. If the goal is marriage, remember forever can be a longggg time. Make sure it’s what someone you respect and truly feel yourself with.
Instead, avoid the obsessive looking at your phone after the date, and simply ask him this:
Would like to continue this familiarization of each other? Either way, it was a lovely time learning about you. You are quite interesting. But if this doesn’t feel like the right fit, then I hope we both we find we are looking for.
–DiVINE CONFIDENT WOMAN whilst being courted (& While courting others)
At the end of the day, for you to have a life full of genuine experiences, do not mask who you are.
Authenticity and confidence goes a long way in providing you fulfilling experiences. Know when to decline what is not right for you and have the courage to be free of fleeting desires.
Do not settle just to feel wanted. Provide yourself the best possible experience with individuals that care to bring their best selves forward. Because don’t you deserve the best?
