Relationships can be a rollercoaster ride, can’t they? One moment, you’re on cloud nine, and the next, you’re questioning everything. The empowered feminine knows that love isn’t always easy, but she also knows when to fight for it and when it’s time to walk away.
How Bad Is It?
There comes a time, when we as women, believe the onerous effort is on us to prove we are indeed the real deal and will fight for the relationship; the honorable cry of I was “fighting for us”. Just to prove to them that we truly love them like no other and they are worth the strife.
The question is what is causing this need to fight?
Is it figuring out domestic squabbles like–who keeps leaving the cap off the toothpaste? Whose family are we going to for the holidays this year? Which way is the best way to wash dishes?
OR is it why do you not love me anymore and why are you careless and sometimes even negligent with me? Or why do you not prioritize me?
OR why do you keep looking to other women for validation and keep reaffirming their beauty in an active way?
If you are having a hard time with the last two reasons and you feel unheard and possibly even gaslighted, then let’s talk.
Empowered Feminine Relationship Standards
The empowered feminine allow a man to love her but not disrespect her.
She is a woman first, lover second. She will ALWAYS protect and respect herself. And if any partner wants to enjoy her love and devotion, he should do the same.
The empowered feminine is all about balance—melding strength with sensitivity, intuition with logic. She knows her worth and isn’t afraid to set boundaries. But let’s face it, even the most self-assured woman can struggle with knowing when to hold on or let go. Here’s how to navigate these crossroads with grace.
Signs It’s Worth Fighting for a Relationship
Recognizing Mutual Effort and Growth
Let’s go over the signs that your relationship is worth the battle. If your partner is genuinely supportive, communicates openly, and shares your values and future goals, then you’ve got something worth holding onto.
Remember, no relationship is perfect, but if both parties are committed to growth and understanding, then you’ve got a solid foundation to build upon. But you have to find out what their true intention is.
The Power of Open Communication and Respect
If they are confused about it, then you simply MUST leave them be to come to the answer on their own. Prodding them with the same question will not spark an AHA moment for them. Instead they will just become irritated and push you away further. So, understand when to give space as well!
Being honest and truthful with each other is essential in building a stable foundation. Understand what the blockages are, and if it’s something can be remedied with considerate actions then it can be worked on.
But if the blockages are nebulous and you cannot pinpoint why there is so much fighting, then I reiterate that you must communicate time apart and be very genuine in keeping that space.
YOU HAVE to respect yourself and respect what you have to offer as a multi-faceted being. Continue to thrive on your own and you can self soothe your need for companionship in other ways–volunteer more, join community clubs, participate in fun local events. And spend more time by yourself understanding you.
The Empowered Feminine Knows It’s Time to Let Go
So if you’re finding yourself in a constant state of emotional exhaustion, it’s time to assess if this love is worth the fight. Ask yourself: Are the challenges you’re facing temporary or a recurring pattern? Is this relationship helping you grow, or is it holding you back? Remember, my dear, love should lift you up, not weigh you down.
Red Flags That Can’t Be Ignored
Ah, the infamous red flags. We’ve all seen them, and some of us have even ignored them. But part of being empowered is trusting your gut and acknowledging when something just doesn’t feel right.
If your relationship is riddled with trust issues, disrespect, or a lack of communication, it might be time to reconsider the fight. After all, you deserve a partner who cherishes and respects you for who you are and the love you have.
Trusting Your Intuition to Protect Your Peace
Trusting your intuition to protect your peace is like having your own personal GPS for life. When you listen to that inner voice, you’re not just making decisions; you’re safeguarding your mental and emotional well-being.
It’s about tuning into what feels right for you, even if it means saying no to things that don’t align with your values and make you uncomfortable. It’s stepping away from situations and people that drain your energy.
The empowered feminine knows that her intuition is her ally. Her intuition knows what she needs and is always looking out for her. She also nurtures and strengthens her intuition by cultivating her self during her personal time.
So, next time you feel that nudge, trust it; it’s got your back.
Embracing Empowerment Through Letting Go
Transforming Pain into Growth
If you’ve recently walked away from a relationship, it’s time to focus on the most important love of all—self-love.
Healing takes time, and it’s okay to feel all the feels.
Surround yourself with supportive friends, indulge in self-care rituals, and remember that your worth is not defined by your relationship status. You are fabulous, with or without a partner.
Building Confidence in Your Next Chapter as the Dark Feminine
Click here to read more about Entering your Dark Feminine Era
Let’s get a little mystical, shall we? If the relationship is not going to work out, let us shift from the light nurturing energy you were trying to provide that potential love and let’s step into the dark feminine side for a bit.
Embracing your dark feminine side is all about finding strength in vulnerability. It’s about acknowledging your emotions, no matter how messy, and using them as a source of power. When you tap into this energy, you unleash a force that is both fierce and nurturing—perfect for navigating the pitfalls of love.
The Dark Feminine is unapologetically self-absorbed in a wellness way.
She tends to her wounds, she rejuvenates her playful side, and she does activities that solely bring her joy. She does not do anything that will make her feel uncomfortable, less than, and certainly does not have the patience to change her schedule around for just anyone. She plans her day to feed her soul, her femininity, and her self-growth.
She knows how important confidence is because she refuses to go back out on the battlefield of love with vulnerabilities that can be exploited.
Conclusion
As we wrap up this love-filled adventure, remember that your heart is a wise guide. Trust its whispers and know that whether you choose to fight for love or walk away, you’re making the best decision for your empowered self. Love is a journey, and yours is uniquely beautiful.
The empowered feminine knows that the journey is just as important as the destination. By embracing your empowered feminine energy, you’ll be well-equipped to create the love life you truly deserve.
So go on, my darling, and embrace it with open arms and an open heart.
FAQ
Q: How can I tell if I’m fighting for the right reasons?
A: Reflect on whether the relationship aligns with your values and personal growth. If it feels like you’re sacrificing too much of yourself, it might be time to reevaluate.
Q: What if I’m afraid to walk away?
A: It’s natural to fear the unknown. Seek support, focus on self-love, and remember that empowerment comes from making choices that honor your well-being.
Q: Can a relationship improve after deciding to fight for it?
A: Absolutely! With open communication and mutual effort, many relationships can grow stronger after overcoming obstacles.
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